Dear Debbie
THANK YOU for sharing your story. The first port of call is always Ian Josephs, because he has so much experience. Please ring him and he’ll ring you back.
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And PLEASE do remind all Social Services of THE LAW that the Secretary of State quotes in the attached letter which is also on http://mckenzie-friends.co.uk/2013/08/14/edward-timpson-mp-i-hope-this-reply-is-helpful-no-it-aint-sir/
You need to find other parents locally, too. The best place is Facebook, especially https://www.facebook.com/groups/scotuk/
Quote Edward Timpson and tell your SS people that you write to him.
Stand your Ground!
Keep the Faith!