Sunday 16 November 2014
I went out yesterday and was talking with a few People that were not happy with how things are going within our Country here in Britain and on about The Government and The NHS and I was thinking how once I loved My Country Years ago and how I feel about it now and is it The Country or what is going on and how it is being run and more are just all waking up to all this now around us all. We are told the best way of dealing with a Child when they are acting badly is to say ” I love You, but I don’t like Your behaviour”. So should we have to feel so destroyed by our own Country and such injustices and hate it so much and feel we have to leave, or stand and say, ” I love My Country, but I don’t like their behaviour”. So many changes are needed in Britain.
My dream was always one day just moving a short distance away and living by the sea and never did I think about ever leaving My Country, but I realise that now even moving and living by the sea within this Country I still would be under the same Government and NHS.
I was talking to someone on the phone a couple days ago, who was upset by the fact that as a Mother she had ask for help within Child Social Services and I found Myself telling her to stop beating herself up about it when she didn’t understand back at that time and then I realised how I have tormented Myself over that very same thing in asking for help and how could I give that advise, when I am still beating Myself up about it and many others and time has come where I am not going to suffer over that anymore and no other Parents should, as we didn’t know then what we know now and we can do nothing about that fact in life, but maybe help stop others from making that same mistake and fight for a better fair system and Country in 2015 and so time has come for us to move forward and put all that pain into changing what we can in life instead.
” Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to chance the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference”.
If You can’t change it accept it and find a way to live with it. If the thing that is causing You stress is something You can change, stop wasting time stressing
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!
One thing for sure and that’s none of us who ask Social Services for help can ever change that terrible experience in finding out we never got any help as a family and so we have to stop, grow stronger and work on what we can change instead, as we need all the strength and energy possible in life.